Feb 24th, 2025
At Savannah Educational Consultants our professional coaches use a variety of proven Best Practices to help students achieve mastery of their executive functioning skills.Several are presented in this blog that our staff have found helpful.
The standard game that is used in research on executive function is one in which three- and four-year-olds must sort a series of cards. The cards have different shapes (bunnies, cars, etc.), as well as different colors (blue bunnies, red bunnies, blue cars, red cars). First, the children must sort the cards based on shape — bunnies in one pile, cars in the other. But then, the sneaky researchers change the rules! NOW, the cards are sorted by color — blue bunnies and blue cars in one pile, red cars and red bunnies in the other pile.Three-year-olds really struggle with this task. In the language of cognitive scientists, they perseverate — they keep following the old rule even though circumstances have changed. (Alas, even forty-three-year-olds do this — continuing to do something the way they’ve always done it, even though it’s no longer productive!)
But when the researchers coach the three-year-olds (“Oh! Remember, we’re playing the COLOR game now. What color is the bunny? …. So what pile should the bunny go in, the red pile or the blue pile?”), the three-year-olds think about what they’re doing, and get better at their task.
These might look like silly games, but they’re teaching kids how to adjust to changing rules, how to inhibit their impulse to act based on habit, and how to hold many pieces of information in their head at a time (size, color, shape, rules, etc.)
Songs like “Going on a Bear Hunt” or even “The Itsy Bitsy Spider” give kids’ working memory a workout — they have to remember the order of the verses and the actions that go along with each section. They have to pay attention to what part of the song they’re singing, and may need to inhibit impulses to do the actions out of order.
Puzzles require focus and concentration, and the use of working memory to search for pieces that will fit together.
Games like 20 Questions or I Spy teach kids how to think in categories (“I spy something green…”), and they need to use their working memory to keep track of all the criteria for the object they are trying to guess.
Lots of card games can teach executive functioning skills, but a favorite is Uno — it’s a game where the order of play can change rapidly, and kids have to keep track of colors and numbers (it’s a more intense version of the card-sorting games above). Games like Memory, Spot It!, or other matching games are great, too. You can find more brain-enhancing games for school-agers here.
Simon Says is a classic game that teaches both inhibitory control and cognitive flexibility: “I didn’t say ‘Simon says!!'” Kids need to curb the impulse to respond to “jump up and down” when they hear the words without the requisite “Simon says.” For younger kids, you could play a game where you hold two stuffed animals, and they only do the actions that one of them tells them to do.
For real, even the people at Harvard say this helps build executive function, as it requires kids to keep various fantasy locations in mind, they have to follow certain rules about how different characters and materials can be used, and they need to develop strategies to meet their goals.
Volunteering is all about taking specific actions in order to solve a problem. Talk to your teen about an issue that is important to them, and have them research the different opportunities available to take action. You can check out this list of 50 Community Service Ideas for Teen Volunteers here to get started.
With journaling, teens can practice self-reflection and planning. This article has great suggestions for helping your teen get started with journaling. Teens might also enjoy bullet journaling; it’s a fun way to plan, organize, and keep track of projects and activities, and can be a creative, artsy endeavor, too!
They’re not just for the little ones! Teens will enjoy games like Taboo or Apples to Apples, which are hilariously fun, but also require complex thinking and inhibition control. You could also go old-school with a classic game like Risk. See this article here for more recommendations of board games for teens and tweens.
Interested parents of students in Savannah can learn more by accessing the Uber-Comprehensive Guide To Teaching Executive Functioning to Kids by the Center On The Developing Child at Harvard University.
